Praying for the Terminally Ill
1. I have only just realised something that should have been obvious to me all along (and probably is to others).
2. I have often felt uncomfortable wishing people “refuoh shleimoh” – complete recovery – on behalf of a relative or friend who is clearly terminally ill. Of course I want to express sympathy with anyone who is ill or suffering: but is it apt to say “refuoh shleimoh” to the child of a ninety-nine year old parent who has clearly taken to their bed for the last time?
3. The answer is, yes – as I should have realised all the time – and it has nothing to do with miracle cures. The prayer for the sick includes the passage “refuas hanefesh u’refuas haguf” – a cure for the soul and a cure for the body. And that is the point. Everyone needs both, all the time. If someone is on their way out of this world, I am praying that they should leave with their soul at rest. And it is never too late to pray for that.
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Written by Daniel Greenberg
December 28, 2007 at 1:26 pm
Posted in Uncategorized
Tagged with prayer, Praying for the sick, refuah shlemah, refuoh shleimoh, terminally ill
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Daniel,
As a father and husband mired deep in the battle for health (my wife’s terminal health), I can tell you that I completely agree with you.
My wife is a 40 year old “new mom.” And she’s having a hard time. And…
The act of “mi sheberach” can have an effect beyond the spiritual. It can ease tension and suffering in the “recipient.” It’s a prayer for both body AND spirit.
Thank you, for being so thoughtful.
Shalom Alacheim
renaissanceronin
August 17, 2008 at 4:26 pm
I am sure I speak for everyone who reads this blog when I wish the previous commenter and his family every possible good wish.
Daniel Greenberg
August 20, 2008 at 2:45 pm